She can never hang out on Sundays because she apparently spends the entire day at church. They took an oath and it is who they are. I came across your blog on a google search and I really enjoyed what you wrote. I hope I can forgive it someday, but even still my anger is red hot.

While I do get to accompany him to various dinners and parties, we hardly ever have time together just us, and when we do, he just wants to relax over dinner and decompress. I'm so happy to know another doctor's wife. If you do attend parties like that, expect her to drink 7-Up and volunteer as the designated driver, and to be completely repulsed if you drink too much.
Mormon's view marriages outside the temple to be counterfeit and you can't get into the temple without converting to the religion. I definitely don't want to lead her on. It's like talking to a wall. I wouldn't wish this shit on my enemy. I've been dating my girl for 5 years and we have just broke up because she told me she likes someone else but she say she still loves me I have been married for 8 months, my husband is starting his training in orthopaedics Never imagined my life will be like this The 3 years we were together prior marriage when he was an intern were not like this at all I read all the comments and I can see there no much hope for things to improve Constant absences, constants arguments, I have to make myself available when he is available, I am an architect, I have a demanding job myself, but still beings doctor seems to be a lot more important than my career. My husband had quite a late start in his career; he will be almost 40 by the time he starts residency so I feel we are already way behind in that sense, but also he has had a very hard time getting into residency as he went to med school outside the US. The misogyny is deep in the Mormon church. I am a something male.
Dude just to summarize what I think is the majority of the comments. When we obsess over it we start acting like a customer in a clothing store wondering what he or she will look like if they wear that particular wardrobe. It really can be that simple. God and the Goddess had something more waiting for me. There's no way a TBM is dating you if she knows about your Lucifer kick. Trust me, though--you will.